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Your first erotic massage: 10 questions everyone has

Nervous about your first erotic massage? Completely normal. The ten questions everyone has, answered honestly — from showering to paying.

Everyone is a bit nervous the first time. That is normal, and our hostesses know it. To make it easier, here are the questions almost everyone has — including the ones you might not ask out loud.

1. Which massage should I choose?

For a first time we recommend a 60-minute body-to-body or tantric massage. Direct enough to really feel something, calm enough to relax.

2. Should I say anything?

Just say it is your first time. Your hostess will take extra time to explain and check in on how it feels.

3. Do I undress completely?

Yes, an erotic massage is done naked. There is always a towel, and nothing happens faster than you want.

4. What if I am nervous, or my body doesn’t respond right away?

It happens more often than you think, especially the first time. A good hostess does not make an issue of it: relaxation usually comes naturally as the massage goes on.

5. Should I shower beforehand?

Yes, at the salon and at home. Being fresh is a sign of respect.

6. May I touch the hostess?

Discuss it beforehand. Some hostesses are fine with light touch, others are not. Respect her answer — it is also in the house rules.

7. What is included?

The massage and a manual climax. An oral or vaginal climax can be chosen in advance as an extra. More in what a happy ending means.

8. What does it cost?

From €75 for 30 minutes. A 60-minute massage costs between €115 and €160. Everything is on the prices page.

9. Is it discreet?

Yes. We only ask what is needed, sell nothing on, and your address is only asked at the very end. More in booking discreetly.

10. Do I pay in advance?

No. You pay nothing when you request. We confirm personally first.

More tips? Read the etiquette or how to prepare a home visit. Ready? Meet the hostesses.

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